Some mornings, the walk begins long before my feet hit the pavement.
Today was one of those days.
I stepped outside carrying the leftovers of the weekend. It was not anger but a faint frustration still sitting in my chest. A conversation with my husband. A few lingering comments from Friday’s networking call. The mental residue that stays with you even after you think you’ve moved on.
So I did what I always do when my mind feels cluttered:
I walked.
Phase 1: Walking Out With What You’re Carrying
The first stretch of my walk wasn’t graceful.
It was honest.
I was talking out loud — not to fix anything, not to judge anything, just to let the thoughts untangle. This is the part people don’t see. The messy part. The part where everything comes out exactly as it sits.
But I’ve learned something over the years:
If I don’t let it out, I’ll drag it all day.
Phase 2: The Clearing
About 35 minutes in, something shifted.
My breath settled.
My pace softened.
And for the first time that morning, I looked up.
The leaves were showing off in their fall colors.
A neighbor was burning leaves.
Someone else was out walking their dog.
Life was happening all around me — steady, simple, unbothered.
That’s when the walk did what it always does:
It steadied me.
Walking has a way of regulating my emotions without permission.
It lets the mind go from tight to open, scattered to spacious.
Phase 3: The Re-Focus
The final 10–15 minutes became a completely different walk.
My mind was no longer replaying conversations or frustrations.
Instead, it opened up to direction. I considered what I want to build. I thought about how I want to show up. I decided where I want to place my energy today.
Ideas started forming about organizing my business more strategically.
Clarity began replacing clutter.
Focus began replacing frustration.
And all of this came not from forcing myself to think — but from letting myself walk.
Why This Matters
This morning reminded me of something I often forget:
My walk isn’t just exercise.
It’s not about discipline or step counts.
It’s where my mind clears, my spirit regulates, and my creativity wakes up.
It’s how I get myself back before the day begins.
That’s the anatomy of a good morning walk — Confident Strides style.
A little processing, a little presence, and eventually, a whole lot of clarity.
Reflection Prompt
What emotional or mental “leftovers” do you carry into your mornings — and how might movement help you release them?
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Author’s Note
This walk is just one of many that continue to teach me how clarity meets motion. Each step brings me back to myself — and back to what matters.
Sweet N Social 
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