Category: Awareness

  • Don’t Be Scared

    Don’t Be Scared

    The cave you fear to enter holds the treasure you seek.  ~Joseph Campbell

    Many times during the walk I come across a flock of Canadian Geese.1024px-Geesespokaneriver Most of the time they are on the pond or on the lake.  On a few occasions these birds are close to the walking trail or crossing it.  As I come up on them, my heart starts racing and fear of them attacking me comes to mind.

    I had a little run in with these birds a few years ago when I was going into one of my favorite retail shops, I accidentally walked to close to a nesting ground. The male bird started to fly towards me, squawking at me. I knew I was definitely in the wrong place. It frightened me and many of other patrons that tried to enter the shop that day.  Ever since that incident, I try to stay mindful of their presence and respect their space.

    Recently, I have decided to give these birds names. IMG_1870My names are not meant to be harmful to these birds in any way. My names are meant as a visual reference for the fears generated in my mind. Instead of the sign saying “Caution Feeding Wildlife Can Be Harmful” I see “Caution Feeding Your Fears Can Be Harmful. For instance, in the picture above, I would name these birds confusion, worry, criticism and doubt. By giving the geese these names, I started learning to recognize the emotions that fear generates inside. By feeling and accepting the racing heart beat and the nervousness that arises, I recognize these are feelings of fear. It’s not that the fear will disappear, it is the fact that I have to feel the fear, breathe and keep on moving.

    Goose Photo Source: This image was created by Matthew S. Staben http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Canada_goose#mediaviewer/File:Geesespokaneriver.jpg

    Quote Source: http://www.quotegarden.com/fear.html

     

  • Just Leave it There

    Just Leave it There

    Every morning we are born again. What we do today is what matters most. -Guatama Buddha

    Some days I just need to get a good walk in to refresh and renew my spirit. When I can feel my soul get heavy, a nice walk does wonders.  DSCF6033Now that it is starting to get colder here, it is getting harder to get my body moving. I’ve pushed my morning walks back from the 7 am to 10 am already.  With the thought of the cold air and having to bundle up, leave more time for the “I’m not going to the park today” attitude to creep in.  By 10 am, I have had my coffee and I get the feeling I can make it through the day without walking. Its not until the thoughts of self-doubt raise up that I know I should have chosen otherwise.

    By the time I get my butt moving, the sun is usually shining bright and it’s a little bit warmer. My standard walk takes about an hour and a half to do. There is this one part of the trail I love to come to. DSCF4934Its the bridge. I call it the “don’t take it with you” bridge. There are eight observation areas built in along the bridge so you can stop and stand and not be in any one’s way.

    When I leave off that bridge, I’m leaving my burdens there too. I vow not to leave off the same way I entered on.

    Each day is a gift. Don’t squander your gift worried about the past or the future.

    Quote Source: http://www.goodreads.com

  • What is Your Sign?

    What is Your Sign?

    What matters most is how you see yourself. -Unknown Author

    I want to share a story that a friend of mine shared with me recently. 11275856_sShe was at the ice cream parlor eating an ice cream cone. As she sat there, a man not smelling so pleasant walked by and she looked up. He was wearing a sign on his chest that stated he was homeless.  She said the “homeless” sign really drew her attention.  She said the man sat down a little ways from her. She started looking in her purse and in her car for some money but couldn’t find any spare change.  She said as she was looking, something inside her said “don’t give that man any money, that man made a choice”

    What I took away from that story was that we all make choices each and every moment of our lives.  We all walk around with some type of invisible sign on our chest. 18819733_s Some of our signs may say victim, lonely or helpless and we don’t even realize it.  It’s not how the world sees you, but how you see yourself that matters.  For the longest time I wore an “unworthy” sign on my chest.  I got tired of wearing that sign.  Now my signs read successful, powerful, wise and worthy.  My question for you is: What is your sign?

  • A Natural Rhythm

    A Natural Rhythm

     Give your stress wings and let it fly away. ~Terri Guillemets

    It’s amazing to watch the birds swoop up and down the way they do. DSCF4721I love watching them interact with each other.  It’s like they are so carefree. I never really paid much attention to nature the way I have this year.  I must admit that I have learned so much by just watching the birds play and the flowers bloom. There seems to be a natural rhythm that flows all around us.  Just when you see one group of flowers die off, another new batch of them bloom up.

    This gives me a sense of hope, that despite what our surrounds may look like, you have to trust in the “process” or the flow of life. Each new day offers a new beginning and a chance to grow. Nothing in life ever stays the same.P1110960

    Don’t let the stress of life weight you down. Like the quote says “Give your stress wings and let it fly away”.  When we get so caught up in worrying about the “what if”s and the “maybe”s we rob ourselves of the the here and now. Take some time out and just watch how nature unfolds, you just might learn something.

     

    Quote Source: http://www.quotegarden.com

     

  • Coincidences

    Coincidences

    “Coincidence is God’s way of remaining anonymous.” ― Albert Einstein

    I started reading Deepak Chopra’s “The Spontaneous Fulfillment of Desire” DSCF5566this week. It explores SyncroDestiny, the phenomenon of coincidences. The book was available to purchase at Oprah’s The Life You Want Tour.

    Now looking back, I guess all of what I am about to share could be classified as coincidences. I started requesting several books from Oprah’s book list through the local library. The first book available for pick up was “The Spontaneous Fulfillment of Desire”.

    When I was in Michigan, I was talking to my “new friend” I met in the registration line on Friday about how I needed to find a new hairdresser.  On Monday evening after returning from Michigan,  I received a call from a fellow business consultant to see if I would be interested in providing consulting services to a new client he just signed.  On Wednesday when I met the new client she said she was a hairdresser.

    I wanted to order and read Oprah’s new book “What I Know for Sure” but it was not available through the library. My aunt called me on Thursday and said she needed my address to send me a book she thought I would be interested in reading,  Oprah’s “What I know for Sure”.  15224899_s

    Can you imagine what our lives could be like if we noticed these occurrences while they are happening instead of realizing them when we are reflecting on the past.  In the book, Deepak Chopra explains that these coincidences are like flashing signs to let you know that you are on the path to fulfilling your desire.  Who knows, maybe its a sign for me to share that information with someone reading this!

    Quote Source: http://www.goodreads.com/

  • Are We There Yet?

    Are We There Yet?

     Acknowledging the good that is already in your life is the foundation for all abundance. -Eckhart Tolle

     I have had a rough couple of days lately. There has been this overwhelming feeling like nothing is coming together.IMG_0918  The one book that has helped me put some of my feelings into perspective has been Eckhart Tolle’s book A New Earth.

    Driving home from the park this morning, I threw a little “tempter tantrum” over things in my life.  I can look back know and laugh at myself but this morning was a different story.  I finished up my walk on a good note, when all of a sudden an overwhelming feeling of anger hit me. I got mad over my financial situation and the frustration of not having the money I “need” to take care of my family. By the time I got home, my feelings had subsided. I remembered that frustration comes from focusing on the lack instead of the abundance of this universe.

    I try so often to stay focused on the fact that I’m not where I used to be,  but at times the thought that I’m not where I want to be seeps in and leaves me frustrated. I feel like the little kid in the car that keeps asking are we there yet?Screensaver1

    The fact that I realize that this idea of lack is ” just an idea”, I was able to regain focus. I know at I times there will be rough patches that will pop up and I am not alone with these same frustrations. What we want out of this world we have to give to this world. In the book A New Earth, Eckhart Tolle says that also includes abundance.

    I hope this helps others realize, we are all in this wonderful thing called Life together.

    Quote Source: A New Earth, Awaking to Your Life’s Purpose