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  • Embracing Presence: Lessons from the Shore

    Embracing Presence: Lessons from the Shore

    The waves at Fort Ord have a rhythm all their own. Some crash loud and proud, spraying salt mist high into the air. Others roll in quietly, curling under themselves before disappearing back into the sea.

    I’m sitting on the sand with my phone in hand. I am waiting for that perfect shot. It’s the kind that makes you feel the power and pull of the ocean even through a screen. Every time I look away, it occurs. The big wave comes. It’s the perfect one. It’s the moment I thought I was ready for.

    It makes me laugh a little. There’s something poetic about missing the moment because I was too busy trying to catch it.

    The Illusion of Control

    As a photographer, I’ve learned that timing is everything. But here, sitting by the water, I realize that control is an illusion.

    You can prepare your camera, adjust your focus, line up your frame — but the waves don’t act on command. They come when they come. The ocean has no interest in your readiness or your plans.

    And as an entrepreneur, that lesson hits home.
    How many times have I tried to line up everything just right before launching something new? Waiting for the “perfect” moment — the right lighting, the right energy, the right audience? And still, somehow, the timing never feels exact.

    Because life, like the ocean, has its own rhythm.

    Presence Over Perfection

    I put my phone down and just watch for a while. Without the pressure to capture, I start to see. I watch the shimmer of sunlight on the water. I notice the way each wave builds quietly before bursting open. I appreciate the stillness between them.

    There’s beauty in those in-between moments too, the pauses between the noise.

    Sometimes the best thing you can do is simply sit and watch.
    You’ll never catch the perfect shot, and maybe that’s the point.

    It’s not about catching the moment — it’s about being there for it.

    The Entrepreneur’s Ocean

    Entrepreneurship can feel a lot like watching waves. One moment, everything’s calm — steady clients, steady flow, steady confidence. The next, the tide shifts. A new idea rushes in, or a plan you counted on crashes before it lands.

    And still, we show up.
    We adjust, breathe, and wait for the next wave.

    The ocean teaches something that no business book can:
    You can’t force momentum. You can only prepare your stance and trust your footing.

    When the wave comes, you ride it.
    When it doesn’t, you rest and watch.

    The Gift of Surrender

    There’s a strange peace that comes with letting go of control.
    Once I stop trying to expect the next wave, I notice how everything slows down. My breath slows, my mind calms, and even my heartbeat eases.

    It reminds me that presence isn’t passive. It’s an active choice to be here, now — not somewhere in the “what if.”

    The ocean doesn’t apologize for its unpredictability. It simply is.
    And maybe that’s what balance looks like. It’s about learning to move in rhythm with what’s unfolding. This is instead of fighting against it.

    A Lesson in Timing

    The afternoon sun glistens on the water. I look out and catch it just in time. A perfect, towering wave curls into gold. It’s magnificent, and this time, I don’t reach for my phone. I just watch.

    The foam curls, the light dances, and the moment passes — but not really.
    It’s still with me, imprinted deeper than any photo could have captured.

    The peace isn’t in freezing the moment.
    It’s in feeling it.

    The Takeaway

    Maybe we spend too much time trying to catch life instead of living it.
    Trying to control timing instead of trusting it. I also learned a lesson doesn’t end here — the ocean always finds another way to speak.

    The waves will keep coming, whether I’m ready or not. And maybe that’s the beauty of it. It’s knowing that everything meant for me will arrive when I’m here enough to get it.

    The waves come when they come.
    The peace is in being there when they do.

    Reflection Prompt

    Where in your life are you trying to control the timing instead of simply being present for the flow?

    Author’s Note

    This piece was one of three reflections that arrived on the same afternoon at Fort Ord State Beach. Each carried its own message. Yet, this one asked me to slow down. It encouraged me to look up from the screen. I needed to witness life as it was. I shouldn’t try to capture or control it.

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    By Tonia Tyler | #ConfidentStrides | Sweet N Social

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  • The Beach That Completed a Story I Started Years Ago

    The Beach That Completed a Story I Started Years Ago

    Fort Ord is one of those places I once dreamed of being stationed when I first joined the Army. Back then, it wasn’t just about location — it was about possibility. The ocean nearby, the cool breeze, the idea of serving where land meets sea. I never got that assignment. Life, as it tends to do, had other plans.

    But here I am years later. I am sitting on Fort Ord State Beach. The sun is warm on my face, and the sound of the Pacific rolls steadily against the shore. It’s October, and the air is softer than I remember it being when I last visited in August. That trip was foggy, cold, and gray. It was the kind of day that makes you pull your jacket tight. It makes you quicken your pace.

    Today is different. Today is golden.

    When Life Comes Full Circle

    It’s funny how life loops back around. Every base I ever wanted to be stationed at, my son somehow found his way to. It’s almost poetic — like he’s walking the same map, but on his own terms.

    It hit me when I first realized that. Maybe not getting what I wanted back then wasn’t a loss. It was preparation. Maybe my journey wasn’t about being there first but about understanding the path so he could walk it stronger.

    Watching him now — serving, leading, growing — I can see pieces of myself reflected in his path. The determination. The discipline. The quiet pride. And maybe even the longing for something bigger than yourself. It’s humbling to realize that our dreams sometimes outlive us, continuing through those we love.

    The Sound of Then and Now

    As I walk the dunes, I can almost hear echoes of what once was. Soldiers were running drills. Conversations were carried by the wind. I can remember the thud of boots on sand. Back in the day, this land was alive with military rhythm and purpose. Now, the base is quiet, transformed into trails and open beach.

    It’s peaceful in a way that feels earned.
    The hum of the waves replaces the cadence of marching feet.
    The gulls cry where orders once rang out.

    I pause to imagine the view through my younger eyes. I recall the ambition, the urgency, and the belief. I thought the next station would be the one that made it all make sense. I believed the next assignment would do that too. I even thought the next goal would give clarity. And now, decades later, I’m here not as a soldier. I am a woman, a mother, a creator. I am standing still long enough to let the lesson find me.

    A Different Kind of Arrival

    Back then, I thought fulfillment came from the next accomplishment — the next title, the next milestone, the next “station.”

    Now, I know better.
    Sometimes, the places we long for return not to test us, but to show us how much we’ve grown.

    Sitting on the warm sand, I watch the waves crash with a rhythm that commands respect. There’s no rush in their arrival. Each one comes when it’s ready — full of power, grace, and inevitability.

    Maybe that’s the quiet wisdom of life in motion: everything comes when it’s supposed to.

    Gratitude in Motion

    It’s strange how gratitude sneaks up on you. You can’t always chase it. Sometimes it finds you in moments like this. You’re not trying to make sense of anything. You’re just breathing and being.

    Here, the sunlight glints off the water like tiny medals, and I can’t help but smile at the symmetry. The military once stood for duty and structure for me — now it stands for lineage, connection, and legacy. I’m proud of where I’ve been, but even prouder of how far I’ve come.

    The younger me wanted orders to Fort Ord.
    The woman sitting here today realizes she didn’t need them.
    She just needed time, growth, and faith to circle back in her own way.

    Full-Circle Truths

    There’s a peace in realizing you didn’t miss your moment. It was simply waiting for you to become the person who could recognize it.

    Fort Ord may no longer be an active base, but it still holds presence, purpose, and power. Standing here feels like being in a memory that has healed itself. The should-haves and could-haves have been washed away by the tide.

    I close my eyes, breathe in the salt air, and listen to the ocean’s steady voice reminding me:

    You’re exactly where you’re meant to be.

    I didn’t realize then that this beach still had more to teach me.

    Reflection Prompt

    What parts of your story have come full circle in unexpected ways?
    What dreams once felt delayed but returned at the right time?

    Author’s Note

    This piece was written after an unexpected moment of stillness on the beach at Fort Ord. What began as a simple walk became a bridge between who I was and who I am now. That quiet sense of completion stayed with me, which is why this story felt important to capture and share.

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    By Tonia Tyler | #ConfidentStrides | Sweet N Social

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  • When Someone Reflects Back a Version of You That You Haven’t Fully Met Yet

    When Someone Reflects Back a Version of You That You Haven’t Fully Met Yet

    There are moments in conversation when someone reflects something back to you that feels both familiar and foreign. You hear the words, you recognize the truth in them, and yet… you’re surprised. Almost confused. Almost wondering, “Where did that come from?”

    I had one of those moments recently.
    A response landed so deeply that it stopped me in my tracks. It was accurate — deeply accurate — but it felt like it appeared from nowhere. For a second, I wondered if the insight belonged to me. Was it being handed to me outright?

    But the truth is this:
    It was mine.
    I just hadn’t fully met that version of myself yet.

    Sometimes we speak from deeper places than we realize. We share from intuition, experience, muscle memory, lived wisdom. We speak in fragments — and then someone reflects those fragments back to us fully formed.

    It can feel startling.
    It can feel like revelation.
    It can feel like someone is seeing a part of you you didn’t realize was showing.

    But often, what they’re reflecting isn’t new.
    It’s simply clearer than how you said it.

    We grow so steadily that we don’t always recognize our own growth until it’s mirrored back.

    Insight doesn’t always arrive neatly.
    Wisdom doesn’t always announce itself.
    Sometimes we’re already living into the next version of ourselves before we know how to speak from it.

    When someone reflects that back, it can feel like meeting yourself for the first time. They highlight the clarity, the depth, and the truth you didn’t realize you were revealing.

    Not the old you.
    Not the uncertain you.
    But the becoming you.

    The version that’s been forming quietly through walking, observing, practicing stillness, listening inward, and paying attention to life’s subtle lessons.

    So when a reflection surprises me now, I’m learning not to dismiss it. Instead, I pause and think:

    “Maybe this is me — just a version of me I haven’t fully grown into yet.”

    Self-awareness doesn’t always show up as a breakthrough.
    Sometimes it seems softly — through someone else’s words — inviting you to recognize the deeper truth you’ve already spoken.

    And when that happens, you’re not meeting them.
    You’re meeting yourself.

    Reflection Prompt

    When was the last time someone reflected something back to you? Did it feel true, even before you fully recognized it yourself?

    Author Notes

    This reflection came from a moment when something said in conversation felt deeply true but unexpected. It helped me realize that sometimes we speak from a wiser, more evolved part of ourselves without knowing it. When someone reflects that truth back, it can feel like meeting a new version of ourselves. This piece reminds us that growth often happens quietly beneath the surface. Sometimes, we need a mirror to recognize it.

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    By Tonia Tyler | #ConfidentStrides | Sweet N Social

  • Confident Strides: The Podcast — Episode 1: Embracing Presence: Lessons from the Shore

    Confident Strides: The Podcast — Episode 1: Embracing Presence: Lessons from the Shore

    Episode Summary

    Confident Strides: The Podcast invites listeners to think about the value of attendance over perfection. This episode shares a personal story at Fort Ord State Beach. It explores how focusing on capturing moments can distract us. This distraction can prevent us from truly experiencing them. It highlights the importance of letting go, being existing, and finding confidence in the unpredictability of life’s waves.

    Show Notes

    In this episode, we walk through:

    • A full-circle moment years in the making
    • The tension between capturing a moment and living it
    • What the ocean teaches about timing, release, and acceptance
    • How presence builds confidence in unexpected ways
    • Why perfectionism often robs us of the very peace we’re seeking

    Key themes:

    • Presence over perfection
    • Letting go of control
    • Mindful movement
    • Personal growth in motion
    • Nature as a teacher

    Favorite Moment

    “The waves come when they come. The peace is in being there when they do.”

    Transcript

    Tonia Tyler (00:00)
    Welcome to Confidence Tries, the podcast. Quiet moments, powerful insights, a space to walk, reflect, and grow.

    Speaker (00:10)
    So picture this. I’m standing on this wide, quiet beach, phone in hand, just totally determined to snap the perfect wave. But every single time, I thought, this is it. The moment slipped right past me. I couldn’t help but laugh at myself after the third missed shot. That’s happened to me too, and it’s so frustrating. There’s that urge to capture something amazing. But while you’re busy fiddling with your phone,

    the thing you wanted to catch is already gone. It’s like you’re so focused on preserving the perfect memory, you end up missing out on actually experiencing it. Exactly. And then it hit me, how many of those moments have I let pass by? Just because I was too wrapped up in trying to control them, life’s got this wild way of rolling on, like those waves, whether we’re ready or not. What surprised me most is how much calmer things feel when you just let go of trying to capture it all. I mean,

    You stop chasing the perfect timing and just soak up what’s right in front of you, even if it’s messy or unpredictable. Totally. When I finally lowered my phone and just watched, it was this totally different experience. There was this one wave, tall and golden in the late sun. And for once I just took it in. No photo, no proof, just memory. Moments like that stick with you, don’t they? It almost feels freeing, not needing to hold on to everything or get every detail right.

    You get this sense of peace from just being present, even if you’re not capturing it for later. Yeah, and it makes me wonder how often we mistake control for confidence, if I can just get the shot or plan the outcome, then maybe everything will feel secure. But really, it’s the letting go where the real confidence is. Funny you say that, because every time I’ve tried to force things to go my way, it never quite works out. But when I just show up and let things unfold,

    That’s when I actually feel grounded. It’s a totally different kind of trust. One that’s about being present, not perfect. That actually reminds me how important it is to walk at your own pace. The ocean’s not rushing for anyone, and neither should we. There’s this quiet strength in just moving forward. Even if it doesn’t look picture perfect. Absolutely, and I think sometimes we need those reminders. You can’t control the waves, but you can choose to be there, fully.

    for whatever comes. That’s how real confidence grows step by step, right where you are.

    Tonia Tyler (02:41)
    Your path, your pace, your confidence.

    Reflection Prompt

    Where in your life are you trying so hard to capture the perfect moment that you’re missing the one right in front of you?

    By Tonia Tyler | #ConfidentStrides | Sweet N Social

  • Where Hesitation Meets Peace: A Walk in Muir Woods

    Where Hesitation Meets Peace: A Walk in Muir Woods

    I hadn’t planned on visiting Muir Woods that morning.

    I fed the dogs and ensured the house was in good shape. I checked my GPS on a whim. It was only about an hour away. I thought, why not? and decided to make the drive.

    To reach the park, you have to travel down a narrow, winding road for about four miles. The morning was blanketed in fog, and each curve felt a little eerie — beautiful, but unsettling. When I finally reached the bottom and pulled up to the entrance, I realized I had no signal. The park ranger explained that I needed a parking reservation. I would have to drive back up those same four miles to make one.

    So up I went again, through the same twists and turns. For a moment, I thought about not going through with it. The fog, the quiet, and those sharp curves made me nervous. But something in me said, you’ve come this far — follow through.

    At the top, I finally got a signal, made my reservation, and started back down. This time, the fog began to lift. Light filtered through the trees, and what had felt intimidating just minutes earlier now looked peaceful — almost welcoming.

    When I arrived, I parked and stood there for a moment, still unsure if I could handle the trail. Then I saw another woman moving gracefully along in her motorized scooter, smiling and taking in the view. That was all the reassurance I needed. If she could explore, I could walk.

    So I did. I walked about a mile into the forest, surrounded by redwoods that stretched higher than my thoughts. The air was cool and damp — that clean kind of damp with a hint of pine. I stood still, breathing it all in — grateful I hadn’t talked myself out of the experience.

    And crossing the Golden Gate Bridge to get there? That was its own quiet gift — a reminder that sometimes courage starts with a single, spontaneous yes.

    Reflection Prompt:

    When life asks you to travel the same winding road twice, what helps you keep going?

    And who reminds you — even without words — that you’re more capable than you think?

    Author’s Note:

    This reflection began as a spontaneous voice note during a California housesit. That winding road — and the woman in the scooter — reminded me that courage is often quiet. Keeping through isn’t about perfection; it’s about presence. Even when the fog hides the view, steady steps still lead to clarity.

    By Tonia Tyler | #ConfidentStrides | Sweet N Social

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  • When a Home Breathes Easy: The Quiet Art of House-Sitting Well

    When a Home Breathes Easy: The Quiet Art of House-Sitting Well

    House-sitting has its own quiet language — one that doesn’t use words at all.

    You won’t always know how well you’re doing by the checklist alone. Sure, the plants are watered, the floors are clean, the alarm is set, and the mail is tucked neatly away. But the real signs? They show up in the energy of the home and the comfort of the animals who live there.

    In one home, I walked into a warm library space. The dog was curled up, fast asleep. It seemed to have not a single worry in the world. The chair sat untouched, the lamp glowed gently, and the room felt “held.” A calm settles into a home when you respect it. There is an ease that tells you your presence isn’t a disruption but a continuation of care.

    In another home, two big fluffy dogs stretched out beside me on the porch. Each rested in their own way. One was snoozing. The other watched the yard like a gentle guard. They didn’t hover. They didn’t pace. They didn’t look for anyone else. They simply settled. That’s trust. That’s safety. That’s companionship.

    And that’s the real work of house-sitting.

    It’s not just feeding bowls and refilling water.

    It’s not just sticking to routines.

    It’s not just watching the house.

    It’s creating an atmosphere where the animals stay themselves — relaxed, peaceful, unbothered.

    It’s honoring the home in a way that keeps its rhythm steady while the owners are away.

    To me, that’s the highest compliment:

    When the dogs sleep deeply.

    When they choose to sit next to me, not out of anxiety but out of ease.

    When the house feels the same way it did before the owners left — only with a little extra warmth.

    These quiet moments remind me that service doesn’t always announce itself. Sometimes, it looks like two dogs resting on a wooden deck. Sometimes, it looks like a cozy room still holding its peace.

    Sometimes, it looks like everything just… breathing.

    Reflection Prompt: Where in your own life does quiet, consistent care speak louder than words?

    Author’s Note

    This reflection comes from the quiet moments I’ve experienced while house-sitting. These moments often go unnoticed. They speak volumes about connection, trust, and the energy we bring into someone else’s space.

    House-sitting has taught me that service isn’t loud; it’s steady. It’s the kind of care that leaves a home and its animals feeling safe, seen, and respected. These experiences continue to shape how I move through the world — with intention, gentleness, and gratitude.

    By Tonia Tyler | #ConfidentStrides | Sweet N Social

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  • How to Discover Life-Changing Power Through 7 Simple Daily Reflection Exercises – Week 6

    How to Discover Life-Changing Power Through 7 Simple Daily Reflection Exercises – Week 6

    (Week 6 — Simplicity Sparks Creativity)

    A Moment of Flow

    Creativity used to feel like a performance — something I had to summon on command.
    But the more I practice simplicity, the more I realize creativity doesn’t come from control; it comes from space.

    On today’s walk, I left my phone behind.

    No music. No messages. Just the sound of my steps and the rhythm of my breath.
    And somewhere between the silence and the breeze, ideas started to flow. This happened not because I chased them. It was because I finally slowed down enough for them to catch up.

    What Simplicity Taught Me Today

    The mind is like a crowded desk — inspiration has nowhere to land when it’s buried under noise.

    When we simplify our routines, reduce distractions, and stop multitasking, creativity begins to surface naturally.

    Stillness isn’t the absence of thought; it’s the clearing that allows new thoughts to grow.

    You don’t have to force creativity. You just have to make room for it.

    Reflection Prompt

    When do your best ideas usually come — in stillness or in motion?

    What’s one small way you can create more breathing room for your thoughts today?

    Take that walk or step away from the screen.

    Pause between tasks. See what flows in when you’re not trying so hard.

    Keep Walking

    Next week, we’ll wrap up our series. We will explore how to sustain this peaceful rhythm in Day 7 — Finding Your Simple Rhythm.

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    Author’s Note

    Written after a quiet morning walk that reminded me ideas don’t bloom under pressure — they flourish in peace.

    #ConfidentStrides | #SweetNSocial | Written by Tonia Tyler

    Before You Go

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  • How Love Changes the Way We Approach Daily Routines

    How Love Changes the Way We Approach Daily Routines

    This morning, I had to laugh at a moment that caught me by surprise. My son woke up early, moving around with an energy I hadn’t seen in a while. His wife was coming home from vacation, and he wanted everything to look just right.

    Next thing I know, the bed is made perfectly — sheets tucked, pillows fluffed, everything neat and orderly. I just stood there thinking, Now wait a minute… when did he learn how to make a bed like that?

    It made me smile. It reminded me how motivation has a funny way of showing up. It depends on who we’re doing something for. Sometimes we drag our feet when it’s just for ourselves. Yet, when love or excitement is involved, we suddenly become detail-oriented professionals.

    And in that moment, I realized something else too. I may be in his house, but, I’m not the queen here. That title belongs to someone else now, and I couldn’t be prouder. Watching him take care, pay attention, and show love through small actions feels like one of those quiet moments. It’s a full-circle experience as a parent.

    It’s a sweet reminder that growth shows up in the everyday. It seems in the beds made and the gestures of love. It is clear in the way we show up differently when it matters.

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  • How to Discover Life-Changing Power Through 7 Simple Daily Reflection Exercises – Week 5

    How to Discover Life-Changing Power Through 7 Simple Daily Reflection Exercises – Week 5

    (Week 5 — Simplify Your Goals)

    A Gentle Shift in Focus

    Somewhere along the way, we started equating “busy” with “purposeful.”

    Lately, I’ve been asking myself a question. What if the goal isn’t to do more? What if we aim to do less with greater meaning?

    During my walk today, I thought about how easily we overload our lists. We often stretch our energy across too many things.

    When everything is a priority, nothing truly is.

    So I stopped mid-step, looked at the path ahead, and asked: What’s the one thing that really matters today?

    The answer was quiet but clear.

    What Simplicity Taught Me Today

    Simplifying your goals doesn’t mean lowering your standards. It doesn’t mean limiting your dreams. It means focusing your energy where it counts.

    When we strip away distractions, our true goals become clear. These are the goals aligned with our values. They are the ones that move us ahead with peace instead of pressure.

    Every big achievement is built on simple, intentional steps.

    The goal is progress, not perfection — direction, not speed.

    Reflection Prompt

    Look at your current goals — personal, professional, or spiritual.
    What feels heavy or forced?

    Now ask: Which one goal aligns with my peace, not just my productivity?

    Focus on that for the week ahead and notice how your energy shifts.

    Keep Walking

    Next, we’ll explore how simplicity creates space for inspiration and new ideas in Day 6 — Simplicity Sparks Creativity.

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    Author’s Note

    Written during a midday walk when the to-do list felt endless — until I remembered peace has its own priorities.

    #ConfidentStrides | #SweetNSocial | Written by Tonia Tyler

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  • How to Discover Life-Changing Power Through 7 Simple Daily Reflection Exercises – Week 4

    How to Discover Life-Changing Power Through 7 Simple Daily Reflection Exercises – Week 4

    (Week 4 — Letting Go with Grace)

    A Moment of Release

    The trees outside my window are starting to change again.

    One leaf, then another, letting go without resistance — no fight, no regret, just rhythm.

    It made me wonder: what would it look like to release my own “leaves” that no longer serve me?
    An outdated routine, a worn-out worry, or maybe even the need to hold everything together.

    We spend so much energy clutching the familiar. This happens even when it’s no longer fruitful. We forget how freeing release can be.

    What Simplicity Taught Me Today

    Letting go isn’t weakness. It’s wisdom.

    It’s the quiet strength of knowing when something has run its course. It is trusting yourself enough to move ahead without it.

    Grace comes when we stop labeling release as loss. We can start seeing it as space. It is space for peace, creativity, or the next version of who we’re becoming.

    The truth is, simplicity often begins not by adding something new, but by releasing what no longer fits.

    Reflection Prompt

    What are you still carrying that’s weighing you down — mentally, emotionally, or physically?

    Take a deep breath. Picture yourself setting it down, even just for a moment.

    Notice how your body feels when you do.

    Sometimes the first step to peace is permission to let go.

    Keep Walking

    Next, we’ll explore how simplicity helps you refine your focus. It helps you realign your goals in Day 5 — Simplify Your Goals.

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    Author’s Note

    Written after watching leaves fall outside my window — a reminder that nature doesn’t rush or resist its seasons. It simply lets go.

    #ConfidentStrides | #SweetNSocial | Written by Tonia Tyler

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