Category: Motivational Moments

  • Don’t Be Scared

    Don’t Be Scared

    The cave you fear to enter holds the treasure you seek.  ~Joseph Campbell

    Many times during the walk I come across a flock of Canadian Geese.1024px-Geesespokaneriver Most of the time they are on the pond or on the lake.  On a few occasions these birds are close to the walking trail or crossing it.  As I come up on them, my heart starts racing and fear of them attacking me comes to mind.

    I had a little run in with these birds a few years ago when I was going into one of my favorite retail shops, I accidentally walked to close to a nesting ground. The male bird started to fly towards me, squawking at me. I knew I was definitely in the wrong place. It frightened me and many of other patrons that tried to enter the shop that day.  Ever since that incident, I try to stay mindful of their presence and respect their space.

    Recently, I have decided to give these birds names. IMG_1870My names are not meant to be harmful to these birds in any way. My names are meant as a visual reference for the fears generated in my mind. Instead of the sign saying “Caution Feeding Wildlife Can Be Harmful” I see “Caution Feeding Your Fears Can Be Harmful. For instance, in the picture above, I would name these birds confusion, worry, criticism and doubt. By giving the geese these names, I started learning to recognize the emotions that fear generates inside. By feeling and accepting the racing heart beat and the nervousness that arises, I recognize these are feelings of fear. It’s not that the fear will disappear, it is the fact that I have to feel the fear, breathe and keep on moving.

    Goose Photo Source: This image was created by Matthew S. Staben http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Canada_goose#mediaviewer/File:Geesespokaneriver.jpg

    Quote Source: http://www.quotegarden.com/fear.html

     

  • Just Leave it There

    Just Leave it There

    Every morning we are born again. What we do today is what matters most. -Guatama Buddha

    Some days I just need to get a good walk in to refresh and renew my spirit. When I can feel my soul get heavy, a nice walk does wonders.  DSCF6033Now that it is starting to get colder here, it is getting harder to get my body moving. I’ve pushed my morning walks back from the 7 am to 10 am already.  With the thought of the cold air and having to bundle up, leave more time for the “I’m not going to the park today” attitude to creep in.  By 10 am, I have had my coffee and I get the feeling I can make it through the day without walking. Its not until the thoughts of self-doubt raise up that I know I should have chosen otherwise.

    By the time I get my butt moving, the sun is usually shining bright and it’s a little bit warmer. My standard walk takes about an hour and a half to do. There is this one part of the trail I love to come to. DSCF4934Its the bridge. I call it the “don’t take it with you” bridge. There are eight observation areas built in along the bridge so you can stop and stand and not be in any one’s way.

    When I leave off that bridge, I’m leaving my burdens there too. I vow not to leave off the same way I entered on.

    Each day is a gift. Don’t squander your gift worried about the past or the future.

    Quote Source: http://www.goodreads.com

  • What is Your Sign?

    What is Your Sign?

    What matters most is how you see yourself. -Unknown Author

    I want to share a story that a friend of mine shared with me recently. 11275856_sShe was at the ice cream parlor eating an ice cream cone. As she sat there, a man not smelling so pleasant walked by and she looked up. He was wearing a sign on his chest that stated he was homeless.  She said the “homeless” sign really drew her attention.  She said the man sat down a little ways from her. She started looking in her purse and in her car for some money but couldn’t find any spare change.  She said as she was looking, something inside her said “don’t give that man any money, that man made a choice”

    What I took away from that story was that we all make choices each and every moment of our lives.  We all walk around with some type of invisible sign on our chest. 18819733_s Some of our signs may say victim, lonely or helpless and we don’t even realize it.  It’s not how the world sees you, but how you see yourself that matters.  For the longest time I wore an “unworthy” sign on my chest.  I got tired of wearing that sign.  Now my signs read successful, powerful, wise and worthy.  My question for you is: What is your sign?

  • A Natural Rhythm

    A Natural Rhythm

     Give your stress wings and let it fly away. ~Terri Guillemets

    It’s amazing to watch the birds swoop up and down the way they do. DSCF4721I love watching them interact with each other.  It’s like they are so carefree. I never really paid much attention to nature the way I have this year.  I must admit that I have learned so much by just watching the birds play and the flowers bloom. There seems to be a natural rhythm that flows all around us.  Just when you see one group of flowers die off, another new batch of them bloom up.

    This gives me a sense of hope, that despite what our surrounds may look like, you have to trust in the “process” or the flow of life. Each new day offers a new beginning and a chance to grow. Nothing in life ever stays the same.P1110960

    Don’t let the stress of life weight you down. Like the quote says “Give your stress wings and let it fly away”.  When we get so caught up in worrying about the “what if”s and the “maybe”s we rob ourselves of the the here and now. Take some time out and just watch how nature unfolds, you just might learn something.

     

    Quote Source: http://www.quotegarden.com

     

  • Coincidences

    Coincidences

    “Coincidence is God’s way of remaining anonymous.” ― Albert Einstein

    I started reading Deepak Chopra’s “The Spontaneous Fulfillment of Desire” DSCF5566this week. It explores SyncroDestiny, the phenomenon of coincidences. The book was available to purchase at Oprah’s The Life You Want Tour.

    Now looking back, I guess all of what I am about to share could be classified as coincidences. I started requesting several books from Oprah’s book list through the local library. The first book available for pick up was “The Spontaneous Fulfillment of Desire”.

    When I was in Michigan, I was talking to my “new friend” I met in the registration line on Friday about how I needed to find a new hairdresser.  On Monday evening after returning from Michigan,  I received a call from a fellow business consultant to see if I would be interested in providing consulting services to a new client he just signed.  On Wednesday when I met the new client she said she was a hairdresser.

    I wanted to order and read Oprah’s new book “What I Know for Sure” but it was not available through the library. My aunt called me on Thursday and said she needed my address to send me a book she thought I would be interested in reading,  Oprah’s “What I know for Sure”.  15224899_s

    Can you imagine what our lives could be like if we noticed these occurrences while they are happening instead of realizing them when we are reflecting on the past.  In the book, Deepak Chopra explains that these coincidences are like flashing signs to let you know that you are on the path to fulfilling your desire.  Who knows, maybe its a sign for me to share that information with someone reading this!

    Quote Source: http://www.goodreads.com/

  • You Only Live Once

    You Only Live Once

    Every day is an opportunity to make a new happy ending. ~Author Unknown

    I had a wonderful week. I was in Detroit last weekend for Oprah’s Life You Want to Live Tour. DSCF5097It was one of the best things I have ever done for myself. It was a five hour drive to Detroit. I left at 4 am to make it in line to register.

    The doors opened at 9:45 am to register for the wristband and Oprah’s pop up tent town O-Town opened at 10 am.  I made it there by 9 am.  I had decided to make the trip by myself.  While I was standing in the registration line, I met 5 women. Four of the women were from the Detroit area. The one other woman drove up from Cincinnati herself as well.

    After we got our wristbands, there was another line to jump in. This one took us into O-Town. My new found friend and I started to talk and walk around together. DSCF5259

    In O-Town, one of the sponsor tents offered ticket holders a chance to upgrade their seats. I had purchased the lowest cost seats available so I know I wasn’t up close at all, and neither was my new friend. While we were in the line for the chance at upgraded seats, I noticed the sign that stated that each winner would receive two tickets.  The “two tickets” seemed to catch my attention and I said to my friend, “if I win, I will give you the extra ticket” and she relied “I was just thinking the same thing.”  We were about 5-6 people back from the front. When it was our turn to try, I lost but my new friend won. At  that moment, I knew this trip was a once in a lifetime opportunity!

    Quote Source: http://www.quotegarden.com

  • Life is What you Make of it!

    Life is What you Make of it!

    “Life is short, and it’s up to you to make it sweet.” – Sadie Delany

    When I startedP1110967 on this spiritual journey, I didn’t even know that’s what it was. I started with taking walks in the park just as a way to relax and unwind from the stresses of life. I was under a lot of financial pressure and sunk really fast. The only relief I found was listening to my music and walking in the park.

    I remember when I was much younger, I would say: “Life sucks!” Every time I would say that phrase, a woman I used to work with would say: “Life is what you make of it.”  That was over twenty years ago and during times of struggle, that phrase has become my flotation device.

    It’s true that if you change your mindset, it will change your life.

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    What does this have to do with bees? Well, I used to be afraid of the bees.  After looking at them with a different perspective, I find myself fascinated with watching them lately. I know they are just doing what they are designed to do and they are not paying me no attention.

    I love watching the beauty of life unfold today. I believe with all my heart,  Mrs. Brown was right. Life is what you make of it, it’s up to us to us to make it sweet!

    Thank you, Mrs. Brown.

    Quote source: http://happyblackwoman.com/

  • Beautifully Flawed

    Beautifully Flawed

    You are imperfect, permanently and inevitably flawed. And you are beautiful. -Amy Bloom

    I was walking in the park this morning when is this little butterfly caught my attention. Taking a closer look at it, I saw its wings were damaged.

    P1120114  Despite the damage to the wings, it still fluttered around among the blossoms.

    P1120112It’s not what others think that holds us back from our being who we are, but what we tell ourselves that causes the biggest harm.

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    I’m sure this butterfly isn’t worried about if the world thinks it’s still beautiful or not. Why should we?

    Quote Source: http://thoughtcatalog.com/christine-stockton/2013/11/61-quotes-that-will-make-you-feel-beautiful-no-matter-how-you-look/

  • Just Keep Walking

    Just Keep Walking

    “When you come out of the storm, you won’t be the same person who walked in. That’s what this storm’s all about.” ―Haruki Murakami

    On this one particular morning, I woke up and looked outside and saw the clouds.  I have been caught in the rain before, so I really pondered on going. But sometimes the desire out weights the logic.

    The walk takes about an hour and a half, if I walk at a fair pacP1110692e. I was about an hour into the walk when I looked up and saw the dark clouds rolling in. I heard the thunder in the distance, so I knew I was going to get caught. There was no choice but to keep on walking especially if I wanted to get back to my car. This is when you know you just have to brace yourself.

    I continued to walk and the rain started falling. The sky got darker and darker and the rain started to pour down harder. I still had quite a ways to go.  I was coming to a bend in the path when a deer jumped out. It scared the crap out of me, but I had no choice but to keep on walking.  By this time, I wanted to cry.  I started thinking I must look like a knucklehead out here on this path in this storm, but I had to keep walking.

    I had about another 200 yards to the parking lot where my car was, when there was a very, very, very loud clap of thunder and I saw a flash of lightning. I was so scared I ducked down and wanted run for cover, but where was I going to run to? I kept walking. By the time I got to my car, I wP1120046as so drenched and surprising feeling accomplished. I had weathered the storm.

    In life we have storms that will arise. No matter what happens around us or to us, it’s how we deal with them that makes the difference. By continuing to take one step at a time, I made it through the storm. It was a turning point in my life I will never forget.

     

    Quote Source: http://www.goodreads.com/

     

  • Are We There Yet?

    Are We There Yet?

     Acknowledging the good that is already in your life is the foundation for all abundance. -Eckhart Tolle

     I have had a rough couple of days lately. There has been this overwhelming feeling like nothing is coming together.IMG_0918  The one book that has helped me put some of my feelings into perspective has been Eckhart Tolle’s book A New Earth.

    Driving home from the park this morning, I threw a little “tempter tantrum” over things in my life.  I can look back know and laugh at myself but this morning was a different story.  I finished up my walk on a good note, when all of a sudden an overwhelming feeling of anger hit me. I got mad over my financial situation and the frustration of not having the money I “need” to take care of my family. By the time I got home, my feelings had subsided. I remembered that frustration comes from focusing on the lack instead of the abundance of this universe.

    I try so often to stay focused on the fact that I’m not where I used to be,  but at times the thought that I’m not where I want to be seeps in and leaves me frustrated. I feel like the little kid in the car that keeps asking are we there yet?Screensaver1

    The fact that I realize that this idea of lack is ” just an idea”, I was able to regain focus. I know at I times there will be rough patches that will pop up and I am not alone with these same frustrations. What we want out of this world we have to give to this world. In the book A New Earth, Eckhart Tolle says that also includes abundance.

    I hope this helps others realize, we are all in this wonderful thing called Life together.

    Quote Source: A New Earth, Awaking to Your Life’s Purpose