For a long time, I carried a quiet fear. I thought that if I didn’t physically write every idea, then it somehow didn’t count. I worried that using a shortcut like voice notes or technology made me less of a writer. It even made me feel like a fraud.
But here’s what I’ve come to realize. Those voice notes, those reflections recorded mid-walk or late at night, are not shortcuts. They’re foundations. They capture the rhythm of thought in motion. They include the breath between ideas. There are pauses of reflection and the spark before the edit.
For years, my inbox filled with voice recordings that I never touched again. I saw them as unfinished business, evidence that I wasn’t disciplined enough to “really write.” But looking back now, I see them differently. They were seeds waiting for their season.
And sometimes, seeds don’t sprout right away. Sometimes you need the right soil, the right time — or even the right technology.
I once read that some dreams don’t come alive until the right person is born. Alternatively, the right tool might need to be invented to carry them forward. Maybe my voice notes were waiting for me to grow. They needed me to become the version of myself who could finally bring them to life.
Now, when I use transcription tools or AI, it’s not to replace my words; it’s to honor them. To give them room to breathe, structure, and live beyond my phone’s inbox. What once felt like fraud now feels like wisdom — a layered process unfolding in its own divine timing.
Reflection Prompt:
What ideas or recordings have been sitting quietly in your inbox or journal, waiting for their right season to bloom?
Author’s Note:
This reflection came from revisiting years of voice notes I once dismissed as unfinished or unused. I now see them as part of my creative foundation. They are proof that ideas don’t need to arrive fully formed to be valid. This piece is for anyone who’s been hard on themselves for not creating the “right” way. Your process counts. Your rhythm matters.
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By Tonia Tyler | #ConfidentStrides | Sweet N Social
I started taking salsa classes a few weeks ago. It’s the type of salsa that requires working with a partner. I am not usually the lead partner which has been a struggle for me. They teach us the basic steps and then when we are partnered up, I am to “mirror” my partner. Last week we had a practice session. I learned one of the most valuable lessons, not only to dancing, but in life.
In life there is a dynamic duo by the name of Now and Later. To be successful, we have to learn to appreciate now in order to navigate or influence want we want later. Take for instance, whatever you are going through right now in life can provide the tools and the wisdom you need to manage future difficulties later, if you look for it. Take what you learn now and apply it towards what you will face later. It becomes compounded wisdom.
When you know that you are on the right path many new opportunities seem to be “pop up”. Not all distractions are “bad”. In times of temptation, keep clarity. Make sure that you have your goal or vision handy and that it is written down. Review it often. Don’t get caught off guard by distractions.
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